Plain-language learning

Asking for a break or additional support

Asking for help is a participation skill. You do not have to wait until you feel overwhelmed.

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For children

  • Say, “I need a break.”
  • Point to a break card or trusted adult.
  • You can ask for help before you explain why.

For preteens

  • Use clear words: “I need more time” or “Please give me space.”
  • Ask for your caregiver or another trusted person.
  • Tell staff what change would help you continue safely.

For teens and adults

  • You may request lower noise, fewer instructions at once, physical space, or a pause.
  • Choose how much personal information you want to share.
  • A break is not failure; it is one way to manage participation safely.

Practical choices

Words you can use

  • I need a break.
  • Please give me more time.
  • I need less noise or movement.
  • Please get my caregiver or another staff member.

At a horse session

Staff should respond calmly, move you to a safe area when needed, and explain the next choice in plain language.

Evidence and attribution

Sources and review information

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  1. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)

    Managing Stress
    Publication or review date
    May 12, 2026
    Resilient Riders reviewed
    August 21, 2026
    How this source was used
    Government source summarized in original language. No source images or downloadable materials are reproduced.
  2. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)

    Children and Mental Health: Is This Just a Stage?
    Publication or review date
    Revised 2024; NIH Publication No. 24-MH-8085
    Resilient Riders reviewed
    August 21, 2026
    How this source was used
    Government information identified as public domain. Resilient Riders uses an original summary and does not reproduce source images.