Plain-language learning

Simple calming and grounding choices

Small choices can help some people reconnect with the present moment. They are optional and are not treatment.

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For children

  • Look for one thing you can see.
  • Listen for one sound.
  • Take one slow, comfortable breath if that feels good.

For preteens

  • Press your feet gently into the ground.
  • Notice the temperature or texture of something safe nearby.
  • Choose a quiet activity or ask to move to a calmer place.

For teens and adults

  • Try slow breathing, stretching, a short pause, or noticing the environment.
  • Different choices work for different people and situations.
  • Stop any exercise that feels uncomfortable, dizzying, or upsetting.

Practical choices

Choose one—not all

  • Notice what is around you.
  • Relax your shoulders if comfortable.
  • Take a sip of water.
  • Ask for space or trusted support.

At a horse session

A staff member can help you step away from the activity. Horses, riding, and breathing exercises do not diagnose, cure, or treat a health condition.

Evidence and attribution

Sources and review information

Resilient Riders wrote this page in original language after reviewing the sources below. No third-party image, worksheet, logo, assessment, or downloadable file is reproduced.

  1. National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)

    Caring for Your Mental Health
    Publication or review date
    Last reviewed April 2026
    Resilient Riders reviewed
    August 21, 2026
    How this source was used
    Government information identified as public domain. Resilient Riders uses an original summary and does not reproduce source images.
  2. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)

    Managing Stress
    Publication or review date
    May 12, 2026
    Resilient Riders reviewed
    August 21, 2026
    How this source was used
    Government source summarized in original language. No source images or downloadable materials are reproduced.
  3. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Center for PTSD

    Coping with Traumatic Stress Reactions
    Publication or review date
    Last updated March 26, 2025
    Resilient Riders reviewed
    August 21, 2026
    How this source was used
    Government information summarized in original language. This library does not reproduce VA assessments, graphics, or treatment materials.